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Abuse, Anti-Social Personality Disorders, Cluster B Personality Disorders, control, empath, freedom, malignant narcissist, Manipulation, narcissist, Psychopath

Backhanded Gifts and Silent Insults: When “Kindness” Comes With a Knife

It never ends quietly. Not when you’re dealing with someone who craves control more than connection. Today, my kids got packages from their father — gifts delivered straight from Amazon,…

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May 24, 2025
Abuse, control, freedom, narcissist, Narcissistic Baiting, Psychopath, Uncategorized

When They Cross the Line…Again

They promised it wouldn't happen again, but here you are—another line crossed, another wound. It’s time to protect your peace, reclaim your power, and set boundaries that cannot be ignored.

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April 5, 2025
Abuse, Anti-Social Personality Disorders, Cluster B Personality Disorders, control, empath, freedom, malignant narcissist, narcissist, Psychopath

Nothing But Prey: Surviving Narcissistic Abuse and Reclaiming Your Strength

To a narcissist, you’re nothing but prey—a target for their manipulation, control, and deceit. But you are so much more. It’s time to reclaim your strength.

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June 14, 2023
  • Elizabeth Smart Documentary on Netflix

    never be perfect / February 1, 2026 / No Comments

    I’ve been watching the Elizabeth Smart documentary on Netflix, and while her story is extraordinary and horrific in ways I will never claim to understand, it stirred something in me that I couldn’t ignore. Not because our situations are the same — they are not. Not even close.But because watching how long it took for the justice system to respond…

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  • Court Abuse

    When the Justice System Becomes the Weapon

    never be perfect / December 29, 2025 / No Comments

    I don’t think people understand how broken the justice system is until they’re forced to live inside it. I’ve been in court with my ex for over two years. Not because we’re divorcing — we’ve been divorced since 2022.Not because our children are minors — they are 22 and 19 (almost 20). And yet, here we are. I am being…

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  • She Was Slowly Erased

    She Was Slowly Erased

    never be perfect / August 4, 2025 / No Comments

    I look at old photos—and I don’t see what I used to see. I don’t pick apart my weight or my smile or my hair.I don’t zoom in and cringe at my hips or the way my clothes fit.Instead, I feel this ache deep in my chest for the girl in them. Because I know what’s coming. She doesn’t. She’s…

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  • Stalking

    Still Being Watched-Stalking and Harassment

    never be perfect / May 26, 2025 / No Comments

    I was going to pick up pizza. That’s it. Nothing major. Just a quick errand on a quiet Sunday evening. My son is out of town in my car, so I was driving his car—one my ex-husband and his new wife wouldn’t recognize unless they were actively watching. And they were. As I pulled to the light at the end…

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  • Backhanded Gifts and Silent Insults: When “Kindness” Comes With a Knife

    Backhanded Gifts and Silent Insults: When “Kindness” Comes With a Knife

    never be perfect / May 24, 2025 / No Comments

    It never ends quietly. Not when you’re dealing with someone who craves control more than connection. Today, my kids got packages from their father — gifts delivered straight from Amazon, carefully chosen with just enough sweetness to pass as thoughtful… but soaked in judgment and surveillance. One got a phone holder to help record guitar videos. That’s nice, right? Except…

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  • what justice

    Three Years Divorced — and Still Not Free

    never be perfect / April 30, 2025 / No Comments

    Three years after leaving a toxic marriage, I'm still navigating the emotional aftermath even post divorce. The sixth day of court was scheduled for this past Wednesday. Six. Let that sink in.

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  • Jekyll Hyde E

    Escaping The Chaos Of The Malignant Narcissist

    never be perfect / April 15, 2025 / No Comments

    Chaos is the weapon of a malignant narcissist—emotional manipulation, control, and confusion become your daily reality. But you can escape. Discover how to break free, reclaim your peace, and find healing.

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  • Thorned hand reaching for innocent hand that is bleeding

    Chosen to Be Broken : Malignant Narcissism

    never be perfect / April 9, 2025 / No Comments

    Being chosen to be broken—it's the painful reality of malignant narcissism. But your story doesn't end with their cruelty. It's time to reclaim your strength, heal, and write a new chapter.

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  • colorful beads and string

    When They Cross the Line…Again

    never be perfect / April 5, 2025 / No Comments

    They promised it wouldn't happen again, but here you are—another line crossed, another wound. It’s time to protect your peace, reclaim your power, and set boundaries that cannot be ignored.

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  • Survivor

    Weight of Truth

    never be perfect / February 23, 2025 / No Comments

    The truth can feel like a crushing weight, but it’s also a light that reveals what you need to heal, grow, and reclaim your life. Don’t fear it—embrace it.

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