We are taught at a very young age that abuse is visible.  If someone has a black eye, busted lip, bruises, etc…they could be the victim of abuse. What we aren’t taught, is that abuse isn’t always visible.  That the absolute worse type of abuse doesn’t leave marks that are seen by the naked eye.  Emotional, mental, and psychological abuse is so VERY damaging and often goes left unnoticed because we aren’t aware of what we should be looking for.   The last 6+ years of my marriage was pure H E L L.  And when I would tell him how mean he’d become and how very unloved and unwanted…