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  • Stalking

    Still Being Watched-Stalking and Harassment

    May 26, 2025 / No Comments

    I was going to pick up pizza. That’s it. Nothing major. Just a quick errand on a quiet Sunday evening. My son is out of town in my car, so I was driving his car—one my ex-husband and his new wife wouldn’t recognize unless they were actively watching. And they were. As I pulled to the light at the end of my road, I noticed their car behind me. I looked in the rearview mirror and saw her—his wife—holding up her phone, snapping photos of the vehicle I was in. Documenting. At first, I told myself maybe it was nothing. Maybe I was overreacting. But when I turned onto the…

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  • Backhanded Gifts and Silent Insults: When “Kindness” Comes With a Knife

    Backhanded Gifts and Silent Insults: When “Kindness” Comes With a Knife

    May 24, 2025 / No Comments

    It never ends quietly. Not when you’re dealing with someone who craves control more than connection. Today, my kids got packages from their father — gifts delivered straight from Amazon, carefully chosen with just enough sweetness to pass as thoughtful… but soaked in judgment and surveillance. One got a phone holder to help record guitar videos. That’s nice, right? Except it came with not one, but two containers of acne medication. Unsolicited. Unasked for. Unnecessary. This child had already had the courage to face their insecurities and see a dermatologist a month ago. They’re on a treatment plan. But of course, their father didn’t ask. He just sent a silent…

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    Three Years Divorced — and Still Not Free

    April 30, 2025 / No Comments

    Three years after leaving a toxic marriage, I'm still navigating the emotional aftermath even post divorce. The sixth day of court was scheduled for this past Wednesday. Six. Let that sink in.

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    Escaping The Chaos Of The Malignant Narcissist

    April 15, 2025 / No Comments

    Chaos is the weapon of a malignant narcissist—emotional manipulation, control, and confusion become your daily reality. But you can escape. Discover how to break free, reclaim your peace, and find healing.

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    Chosen to Be Broken : Malignant Narcissism

    April 9, 2025 / No Comments

    Being chosen to be broken—it's the painful reality of malignant narcissism. But your story doesn't end with their cruelty. It's time to reclaim your strength, heal, and write a new chapter.

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    When They Cross the Line…Again

    April 5, 2025 / No Comments

    They promised it wouldn't happen again, but here you are—another line crossed, another wound. It’s time to protect your peace, reclaim your power, and set boundaries that cannot be ignored.

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  • Survivor

    Weight of Truth

    February 23, 2025 / No Comments

    The truth can feel like a crushing weight, but it’s also a light that reveals what you need to heal, grow, and reclaim your life. Don’t fear it—embrace it.

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  • Crying woman

    I’d Rather Be Beaten

    December 30, 2023 / No Comments

    Sometimes the bruises you can’t see hurt the most. Emotional abuse cuts deeper, leaving scars on your heart and mind. But healing is possible—one step at a time.

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  • Santa Boxing

    Holidays and Narcissists

    December 27, 2023 / No Comments

    Holidays should be a time of joy, but with a narcissist, they become a battlefield. Learn how to protect your peace, set boundaries, and reclaim your holiday happiness.

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    Finding Strength to Continue: How to Keep Going When Life Feels Overwhelming

    December 7, 2023 / No Comments

    When life feels too heavy to bear, finding strength to continue becomes a lifeline. This is your reminder that resilience is within you, even when the storm rages.

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