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  • Court Abuse

    When the Justice System Becomes the Weapon

    December 29, 2025 / No Comments

    I don’t think people understand how broken the justice system is until they’re forced to live inside it. I’ve been in court with my ex for over two years. Not because we’re divorcing — we’ve been divorced since 2022.Not because our children are minors — they are 22 and 19 (almost 20). And yet, here we are. I am being accused of parental alienation, of not getting bills switched into my name within 30 days, and of being ordered to repay a $20,000 lump sum I was awarded in the divorce. Parental alienation of adult children. That alone should have stopped this at the door. Instead, the court has allowed…

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  • She Was Slowly Erased

    She Was Slowly Erased

    August 4, 2025 / No Comments

    I look at old photos—and I don’t see what I used to see. I don’t pick apart my weight or my smile or my hair.I don’t zoom in and cringe at my hips or the way my clothes fit.Instead, I feel this ache deep in my chest for the girl in them. Because I know what’s coming. She doesn’t. She’s just standing there, hopeful. Loving hard. Wanting to be chosen, kept, enough. But soon she’ll be convinced that she’s not. Before she got engaged, she wore a ball chain necklace every day. She’d had it for years. It wasn’t fancy. Just simple. It had a Celtic cross on it, and…

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  • Stalking

    Still Being Watched-Stalking and Harassment

    May 26, 2025 / No Comments

    I was going to pick up pizza. That’s it. Nothing major. Just a quick errand on a quiet Sunday evening. My son is out of town in my car, so I was driving his car—one my ex-husband and his new wife wouldn’t recognize unless they were actively watching. And they were. As I pulled to the light at the end of my road, I noticed their car behind me. I looked in the rearview mirror and saw her—his wife—holding up her phone, snapping photos of the vehicle I was in. Documenting. At first, I told myself maybe it was nothing. Maybe I was overreacting. But when I turned onto the…

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    When They Cross the Line…Again

    April 5, 2025 / No Comments

    They promised it wouldn't happen again, but here you are—another line crossed, another wound. It’s time to protect your peace, reclaim your power, and set boundaries that cannot be ignored.

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  • Emotional Vampires

    Emotional Vampires: How to Recognize, Protect Yourself, and Reclaim Your Energy

    August 27, 2023 / No Comments

    Emotional vampires are everywhere—people who drain your energy, leaving you feeling exhausted and empty. But you have the power to protect yourself. Learn how to recognize these toxic individuals and reclaim your peace.

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    Zero Empathy and Emotional Reasoning: Understanding Narcissistic Manipulation

    July 20, 2023 / No Comments

    Zero empathy and emotional reasoning are powerful tools of manipulation used by narcissists. Recognizing these tactics can help you protect yourself and reclaim your peace.

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    Deer in Headlights: How Narcissistic Manipulation Leaves You Paralyzed

    July 9, 2023 / No Comments

    Feeling frozen, confused, and unable to respond? It’s the "deer in headlights" effect of narcissistic manipulation—leaving you paralyzed by their toxic tactics.

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  • Little Puppet Trophy Wife

    The Narcissist and His Trophy Wife

    June 23, 2023 / No Comments

    He didn’t move on—he upgraded his stage. The trophy wife isn’t love; she’s proof. Proof he can still manipulate, control, and pretend to be the man you always wished he was. But you see the truth now. And freedom isn’t something he’ll ever give—it’s something you take.

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    Understanding Narcissistic + Psychopathic Abuse

    June 14, 2023 / No Comments

    Narcissistic and psychopathic abuse isn’t just manipulation—it’s a calculated assault on your mind, emotions, and identity. Understanding these toxic behaviors is the first step toward breaking free and reclaiming your life.

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    You Are Not The “New” Me

    June 12, 2023 / No Comments

    You cannot be replaced. You are uniquely you—full of strength, resilience, and a story all your own. It's time to embrace your worth and refuse to be compared.

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