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Narcissistic Blame-Shifting
In relationships with narcissists, blame-shifting is a manipulative tactic frequently employed to maintain control and evade responsibility. It is a cunning maneuver where the narcissist deflects blame onto others, distorting reality to avoid accountability. In this blog post, we explore the insidious nature of narcissistic blame-shifting, its impact on victims, and strategies to navigate this challenging dynamic. Understanding Blame-Shifting:Blame-shifting is…
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The Forgiveness Journey and Being a Christian
Your journey to forgiveness is yours alone. No one has any right to judge where you are or to question your Christianity based on your current place.
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The Narcissist and His Trophy Wife
In the realm of narcissism, the desire for a trophy wife is a prevailing theme, where individuals seek partners who epitomize societal ideals of beauty, success, and status. This article delves into the underlying motivations behind why a narcissist may feel the need to pursue a trophy wife, exploring the psychological factors that drive this quest for validation and external…
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Effects of Gaslighting
Gaslighting is a form of emotional abuse that involves manipulating someone into doubting their own perception of reality. It is a tactic commonly used by narcissistic psychopaths to maintain power and control over their victims. The effects of gaslighting can be devastating and long-lasting, often leading to a range of physical, emotional, and psychological consequences. Here are some of the…
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Like a Hurricane
Narcissism, much like a hurricane, possesses a captivating yet treacherous allure. At first, it may seem like calm weather, with the narcissist’s charm and charisma drawing others closer. But just as a hurricane’s winds gradually intensify, so does the narcissist’s self-centeredness and grandiosity. Like a powerful storm, their need for control and validation sweeps through relationships, leaving a trail of…
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Nothing But Prey
Narcissistic abuse can have profound and long-lasting effects on the preys’ well-being. One of the key impacts is the erosion of self-esteem and self-worth. The constant criticism, belittlement, and devaluation inflicted by narcissistic abusers can leave victims feeling unworthy, inadequate, and powerless. Additionally, the prey often experience emotional trauma, including anxiety, depression, and feelings of emptiness. The manipulative tactics employed…
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Understanding Narcissistic + Psychopathic Abuse
To Understand Narcissistic + Psychopathic Abuse, we must realize that these people don't show up on our doorstep looking like serial killers or evil monsters.
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At Least I Don’t Beat You
We are taught at a very young age that abuse is visible. If someone has a black eye, busted lip, bruises, etc…they could be the victim of abuse. What we aren’t taught, is that abuse isn’t always visible. That the absolute worse type of abuse doesn’t leave marks that are seen by the naked eye. Emotional, mental, and psychological abuse…
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You Are Not The “New” Me
It has taken me such a long time to regain some semblance of who I am. I love myself. I love the person I have become coming out of such a horrific situation. I literally lost half of my life with an abusive narcissistic psychopath. He brought me to my absoulte lowest and while I lay there suffering…he allowed his…
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Narcissistic Baiting…Who Knew This Was a Thing
Raise your hand if you’ve never heard of Narcissistic Baiting. Okay. My hand is up too. While I experienced this, pretty much daily, I had NO IDEA there was a name for it and that this very thing happened to other people. It blows my mind every time I learn that I am not alone in what I went through.…
